5 Secret tips to keep Your Kingman happy and in love
To a Rasta Woman her Kingman is her world. The type of love a Rasta Empress provides, ensures her man will fall in love with her, and stay in love with her, otherwise his comfortable, stable and loving world will shift.
Tip #1 Do not argue or protest or complain.
A Rasta Empress does not argue or protest with her King. He always has the last word. I did say the last word. If you feel that “wiser” action is necessary she does so without words.
Arguing is for those who are of Babylon.
Rasta are always harmonious with each other as we “do not believe in stress” therefore
we seek not to create stress either. If Rasta are arguing with each other it’s because they are not real Rastafari. That’s just the truth. A Rasta Empress listens, and does what is expected of her without protest, without asking why, so that her King knows, she is his right hand without a doubt! We use silence to make our point should the need arise. And positive reinforcement. We may make suggestion as well. All in all Empress are gentle with the heart of our Rastaman so he knows he is safe with us as his Queen. Our Kings love us more for this. In his mind he separates us from the other women he had….who did choose to yell, scream, protest and oppose him. A Rasta woman contemplates…and takes action. She speaks only to give praises, and ensure her yes. This way our King knows, when she speaks, it is to say something IMPORTANT.
Tip #2 Make love every day (that you are not menstruating)
Making love is a very important aspect of King to Empress Relationships
Lovemaking is what defines the relationship as Romantic, and also as spiritual.
A Rasta Empress wants to create a calm, comfortable, atmosphere, in the home between family and with her King. This can be done by the offer of lovemaking every night when she is not menstruating. A man feels calm, at peace and mentally balanced, when he is able to make love on a consistent basis with one woman who he knows is fit to be his Empress. Always be fresh and clean, and ready at the usual time to make love. It doesn’t have to take long….it just needs to be done. I am not trying to teach you how to be sexually with your man, I am simply telling you how a Rasta woman thinks in terms of keeping her Kingman happy sexually, and keeping the balance, and harmony between man and woman as Jah intended. (we know people who have nothing better to do like to take things out of context)
Tip #3 A Rasta Empress is her Kingsman’ best friend…and Respects the Union
A Rasta Woman never shares information about her and her partners conversations with anybody including her family. We do not share our relationship business with others. This is against the faith. The family is seen as an existing thriving unit. Jah, Man, Empress, Children. Nobody else. So personal business is kept private.
Tip #4 An Empress Respects her King as a Man…and His position and perspective
Rasta Women know her King, has to make decisions of his own because he is a man and has a different intelligence, and emotional intelligence than her own that is to be respected. Therefore she does not try to advise him unless she is asked.
Tip #5 Rasta women make her King feel welcome, secure and supported at home
A Rasta Empress is ready to provide her Kingman with something nice as soon as he comes in the door to acknowledge his presence and make him feel comfortable. She is not his slave, but if she is not doing anything important, she takes the time to acknowledge her man as divine, and gives him a Jah inspired greeting of love.
- This could be an offer of tea.
- Take off his shoes for him as he comes in the door
- Love making on a whim
- A new look of clothing modeled on you…
- Modeling of lingerie before bed
- Take off his coat for him
- Cook and serve him a nice Ital food meal
Anything that reminds him that he is home and he is being invited to relax, is a good idea to treat your Kingman with when he comes in the door. Remember Rasta Relationships are governed by Jah. Soe we make the effort to make our man feel loved, and bring Jah inspiration into the home, through love and appreciation.