The Do’s and Don’ts of Dating a Rastafarian
Don’t do the following if you are dating a Rasta man or Rasta woman…
Don’t do these things if you are Dating a Rasta man or Empress
- Do not Swear in his/her presence
- Do not Eat meat at all
- Do not Talk too Loud
- Do not Show Aggression
- Do not Talk about Sex in the presence of his friends or family
- Do not desire cigarettes or Alcohol
- Do not talk about Gun Violence
- Do not suggest a horror movie or a movie with guns violence in it
- Don’t ever mention these two words together “cut” +”dreadlocks”
- Don’t disrespect Africa or African People
- Don’t say that you like kinky things like anal or oral
- Don’t Say you like to be gang-banged either
- Don’t say “there is no God!”
- Don’t make fun of other people
- Don’t act vain in his/her presence (about clothing, hair)
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Do these things if you are dating a Rasta man or Empress
- Express your love gently quietly and patiently
- Show that you are open to embracing the Rastafari Livity
- Show an interest in the Rules Written in the holy Bible
- Become more interested in eating healthily especially going completely vegan. We call it Ital food.
- Donate money and clothing to the poor and needy ( Rasta beliefs book to learn more)
- Take your time before getting physical
- Always shower and brush your teeth 2 times daily (many Rasta do this themselves)
- Always keep your home clean (Rasta need this for their meditation)
- Show love for his/her family and friends
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- Read my Books Rasta Way of Life & How to Become a Rasta
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Jamaican men are just like any other guy. Only they are Jamaican. If you have never been with a Jamaican man before then it will be something different and perhaps exciting. Dont let his sexy accent fool you. He is like every other guy out there. True the Jamaican man has a nice sexy accent, but you must remember he is only human. He is not the Jamaican version of a Greek God. It is easy for women to feel this way around them, when they are not used to them.
Are all Jamaican guys users?
No, not all Jamaican men use all women, and some Jamaican men only use certain women because they know they can. Many Jamaican men have been raised with a very strict set of values and morals, that they don’t intend to ignore.
Are all Jamaican men good in bed?
Not every Jamaican man is good in bed. Some are some are not, just like any other man of any nationality. Jamaican men have a reputation for being Kings in the bedroom…Most are…but not all.
Find out all about the Jamaican man
Do all Jamaican men ask women for money?
A Jamaican man has never asked me for money a day in my life…but perhaps if he was dating you he might do it. Every Jamaican man is different depending on the woman in question. In Jamaican Culture it is ok for the man to ask his woman for some time…but if they have only Just met…and do not live together or have a children together, then it is considered not ok.
Jamaican men work too you know….!
Many Jamaican men have jobs just like everybody else and so there is no need to ask for money. I know Jamaica is considered a third world country, but a lot
of people in Jamaica work too. So, not every Jamaican man is out to make a quick buck off a woman….!
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Do all Jamaican men date white women?
Not every Jamaican man dates white women, but some do….Jamaican men can love and date whoever they want. I know some Jamaican men who date white women exclusively, I know one Jamaican man who dates both black and white women, and I know a few who choose to date just black women…its the personal choice and preference of the Jamaican man.
Are all Jamaican men well endowed?
Many Jamaican men are well endowed. I as a woman have no explanation for this…except to say…Jamaica itself is blessed, and therefore the people are also blessed. Keep in mind for some this may be uncomfortable…LOL. So, being in a relationship with a well endowed Jamaican man is not always a Joy. Trust me!
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I don’t mean beware in a bad way, and I don’t mean beware to only white women, but it’s mainly white women who complain about dating a Jamaican Man. I will tell you about my o
own personal experience and you can draw your own conclusions. But before I do I want to tell you a little about me. My name is Empress Yuajah, that is my Rasta name. I am a Rastafari woman who currently resides in Toronto, but my desires is to live in Jamaica by the end of 2013. I have been Rasta from conception but didn’t accept this part of my self completely until about age 31. I am a full-time blogger and Author, also a song writer. Lets get to it!
White women offended by my honesty
I have written articles in the past about why black men date white women. I noticed white women just get offended and want to tell me off. I wish they would say, thank you. Thank you Empress for your honesty. Because nowhere else am I gonna get the advice of a Jamaican woman who understands the mind of Jamaican men and who will tell me the truth about the motivations of some Jamaican men. But anyway, I have since looked at that page again. I saw that one white women commented without going into a rage. So I will put that page entitled “Why black men date white women – a black womans perspective” back up on my blog. Let it be.
I guess white women see this heading in the search engines and expect to find things like
- White women have skin like angels
- hair like silk
Instead I’m calling a spade a spade and they don’t like it. Don’t get me wrong, I think interracial love is beautiful, I haven’t been with a black man in 10 years myself. It’s just that some of the motivations of black men, concerning dating white women, concern me.
I then wrote dating a Jamaican man 12 things women need to know. It’s mostly about having a Jamaican man living in Jamaica, and what you need to know before you start making plans to bring him to America or Canada or before you move down there.
My own Jamaican Man experience
I went to Jamaica in February of 2012. I met a very sexy and very handsome tall Jamaican man. He looked like an Angel sent straight from heaven. To be honest at first I wasn’t so attracted to him because I figured a guy like that could never be trusted. Eventually I had to come back home to Canada. So we began corresponding on the phone. 8 months!!! We talked on the phone for 8 months, everyday and I shared my heart and soul with him. One day, he stops calling me. Christmas went by and he didn’t even call me to see if I was alive or dead. At first I was devastated. I felt depressed and pissed off. But I knew somehow deep down inside my self that if I would just allow time to heal my heart, there were some good things to come for me. So that is what I did. When I took the time to think about everything, I realized he was just out to use me, and I am a Jamaican.
I mentioned in the title for white women to beware because, If I am a Jamaican woman, and something as ridiculous as this can happen to me. Then for someone who is totally clueless about Jamaican culture and experiencing Jamaican culture, by getting to know a Jamaican man for the first time, then her journey has many risks so to speak. If you think I am making this up because I want to make white women look stupid, I am not. Just read my article How to date a Jamaican man and you will read over 100 comments from women having experiences with Jamaican men. Mostly negative.
My advice to white women dating Jamaican men.
My advice to white women dating Jamaican men. Beware. Proceed with caution. Jamaican men can be very alluring. I am not saying there are not good Jamaican men, there are! But if you are a foreign woman, like me, then we need to be cautious and know some things. Read my 12 things women need to know about dating a Jamaican man. I have to get it back up online. It’s just a few bucks. It’s worth it if you are dating a Jamaican man living in Jamaica and you plan to marry him and bring him abroad. Just wanted to let you know. White women have to be extra careful. Why, because you may be playing with a wolf wearing sheep’s clothing and not know it. It happened to me, it can happen to you. A Jamaican man can use you and break your heart and many times you wont see it coming. Just wanted you to know. Yes not all Jamaican men do this to women, but some do.
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Was it just survival?
Do you think you could find more black man and black woman relationships in the 80s and before because it was an issue of survival? We as a people were still fighting for our rights so to speak during those times. I’m still not sure if I can say we are in the clear. But maybe a lot of black men and black women feel a lot more free pardon the pun, to be who they are and therefore feel like they don’t have to have a black person by their side helping them to fight the fight any more.
What about those who are single and black and who today want to marry within the black nation. Is this something of past. Are these people shit out of luck. If they are you can count me in.
More black men date white
More and more black men now days are opting to date and marry non black women. It makes for slim pickings for a woman like me who refuses to be with someone of a different ethnicity than her, Why you may be asking. Its something that is important to me. It’s who I am, carried, on. I want to mate black to produce black because I am so in love with my culture and my people.
More black women interracial date
Many black women are opting to date outside the black race to, however I feel their reasoning is a little different from the black mans. I feel many black woman are doing this because frankly the black men leave them no other choice since black men are no longer choosing to date black women and b a lot of black women are dating outside their race because they seem to mixing and mingling more outside of the black community and it is a common occurence to date interracial these days.
The matter of respect for black women
I feel like the interracial mixing between white men and black women is more underground, or less public and that the interracial dating and marrying of white women to black men is more mainstream. I feel like the black woman who dates out side of her race does not get the same respect as the black man who dates out side his race
I feel like the black woman is seen as a sell out, where the black man is seen as making the right choice and doing what every man should be doing. When I look at it from the outside. I feel the black woman benefits the most. But maybe that is just my own biased opinion, you figure it out.
what am I to the black man now?
Sometimes I wonder just exactly what I am suppose to be to a black man who now exclusively sleeps with women non black. I actually have someone in my life like that now. It make for alot of arguments. I think he likes me as a friend because I am the only women in his life who doesn nto want to have sex with him.
I need a black Rasta man!
Being Rastafari, not just cause a man is black it means I want him. Oh No! he must be Rasta. A true Rasta, and also not too tall please….lol then I may want him. This friend of mine is confusing, the whole friendship is confusing. We had a terrible argument the other day and I said some pretty bad things. oh well.
Black men hate black women now
There are black men nowadays that hate black women so much so they want to show black women how much they hate them. It happens to me all the time. I just turn my head. There are some white women who are extremely jealous of black women’s DNA. The whole thing is diabolical.
Are black men brainwashed?
I am a black woman who loves black, I seek to date and marry black. I don’t have any thing to prove to anybody. I love my self. I feel hurt that black men seek to date out side of their race and feel some how they are better than black woman or that they want to cause pain to black woman. All in all its their own self hate. This is brainwashing at its best folks.
What happened to the days of King Selassie and his wife Empress Menen. Another example of a black man and black woman who loved each other. King Selassie married Black. He is seen as a Role model to many Rastafari men.
White girls and Black Rastas
I was having a conversation with a white female friend of mine one day….she asked something I can’t remember the question, my reply to her was “I wont answer that” She said “Why cause true Rastas don’t date white girls…” I looked at her with absolute shock. I said oh my gosh who told you that. She said this girl she use to know. I was shocked to hear that out of her mouth. But then she kept say “right, right?” I told her “yes, real Rastamen do not date white women” she said see I know you don’t have to hide it from me. She said “why” I said “its to keep the blood lines pure”
In Rastafari we have believed in this for a long time. But from years ago you would find Rastamen who did date white women. But there are many who refuse. There are some who do it for financial gain but are not happy in the relationship. Then there are some who wont even let the thought enter their minds.
Which Rastas date white?
Anyway I just find it sad to see that more and more black men are opting not to date black women. the only men that I can see that date black women exclusively are Rastamen, and that’s only some of them. It seems the ones that come from the smaller islands date white women abundantly. Many Jamaican Rasta who live in Jamaica are still interested in black women.
hm well, everybody can do as they like, it is a free country and its 2011. Time for people to make their own decisions and choices concerning love. The time of Black Unity, has ended.
Peace and blessings to all who read this. Unity for all, Jah Ras Tafari
Hi guys this is gonna be just a small post on my family house in Jamaica. I was wanting to know how many people need a cheap place to stay in Jamaica. Our home is private, we charge hostel prices about $30 – $50 a night depending. Let me know.
I know many women men and couples are interested in traveling to the caribbean to meet jamaican men or jamaican women. Your reasons are irrelavent to me, but if you need a cheap place to stay my family home might be just the trick especially if you dont wan to spend alot of money on accomodations. or if you are seeking free jamaican dating or rasta dating online please sign up on my forum….http://forum.jamaicanrastafarianlove.com, I am considering just hooking people up while I am there my self.
Jamaican Culture and Jamaican travel
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