Rasta beliefs on love/dating/marriage….Just a sneak peak

Hey guys. As I stated I am writing a book on Rastafari for all of you.  This is my first book, and I have other things to do in my life so I have kind of slowed down on the writing for now. The good news is the rough copy is all done….so I just have to finish the final copy and we are all set. I know many of you wonder what Rastafarians believe on a whole slew of topics, but I wanted to make this post specific on love dating and marriage.

Rasta beliefs on dating non Rastas

rasta love and marriageMany “deep” for lack of better word, Rastafari men and women will not date someone outside of their spiritual beliefs. We understand that this could mean being single for a long time and even maybe forever. We depend on Jah to bring us the right person when the time is right. However, there are some Rasta who are ok with the notion of meeting someone who is not Rasta and then “converting” that person for lack of a better word, into Rastafari. So, like anything else to each his own. You will find more men will date a non Rasta woman, and more Rasta women, will not date a non Rasta man. This is generally speaking. Maybe its all about availability….who knows.

Why do some Rastas like Bob Marley have so many women?

rastafari love and marriageRasta men, are not immune to having multiple relationships with women. But truly I feel they just have too much love in their hearts. This is gonna get me in trouble….Most Rastafari men I would say 95% are faithful, and 5 percent not so faithful. This is for various reasons. Bob Marley was a very good-looking superstar, and he was Rastafari. Many women were attracted to him and I’m sure him attracted to them. What I am getting at is this for some men of Rastafari they have many women at one time because the women allow it. On the other hand there are Rastafari men who just don’t believe in sleeping around at all. In fact most of us “Jamaican Ras” operate in this manner. People get away with what they can folks…bottom line.

Do Rastas believe in true love?

Rastas believe big time in true love. We do believe that true love is possible, and when we love we love with all our hearts. For someone who is not ready for this type of love, they may feel undeserving, or “smothered” Rastas get into a relationship intending to stay there, most of us, for the most part. Love is one of the things we live for. With love, food tastes better, life looks brighter, and we can be mentally clearer. Romantic love is an essential part of human life. As an earthly being we have earthly needs. Love and affection are paramount to a person of Rastafari spirituality.


How can I make my Rasta King love me more?

Many women have put comments regarding their relationship wondering, is he truthful? Is he sleeping around? Things of this nature. Perhaps if you feel the need to ask these questions, he is not the one for you. If your man is clearly accessible and perhaps you want to deepen the bond the two of you have as a non Rastafari woman, trust him, and believe what he tells you about “Jah” and about life. Eat how he eats, live how he lives, love him how he loves you and respect it. Your Rasta King will greatly appreciate this. And when you do this and he wants to touch you passionately, you can thank me in the comments….lol

Rasta beliefs on Marriage

Truth is ladies, we Rastas don’t really believe in marriage. That is not to say we wont do it. Just most of us don’t make a big deal out of it. We believe the relationship is the marriage, and like marriage if we no longer want to be in the relationship we will leave. We also believe marriage doesn’t come with any gaurantees…just because you are married it doesn’t mean the person will love you for ever. We believe in letting love just be what it’s going to be and that a piece of paper isn’t all that important when it comes to matters of the heart. The support, the communication, being reliable, and being each others best friend is what a relationship should be all about. Put your heart in it and it will be great. This is what we Rasta believe about marriage.  This post is very short. perhaps I will writ more another time. Thanks for reading. Bye  for now.

Do Rasta believe in getting having children and settling down?

 

We Ras live for this type of relationship. To settle down and have a family is every single rasta dream. However we know sometimes Jah wants us to stay clear and clean for his own reasons. We accept the single life and embrace it just the same we would our committed relationship. A Rasta in a long-term relationship, typically is a happy one. We love to do things for our partners and for a children, because we see God in our partners and our children. Please visit my new forum if you are looking for information on Rasta dating, or post your own profile seeking love. Blessed Love. Rastafari is the truth every time!

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13 thoughts on “Rasta beliefs on love/dating/marriage….Just a sneak peak”

  1. Aaah, me and my Kingman have bonded now for over 20 years and in between there has been many women and I have sought my own form of love, but we always find our way back to eachother. We now have a young son and we pledge our love in marriage as sanctioned by Jah–no paper. We trust in our love, but we rocky at times because I struggle with the irie ways of life and i diet is not 100% his diet, but i stand firm in teaching our young one the Rasta lifestyle and principles. But i fear that the longer I struggle with my diet and am not a livin example for our youngin, I slowly lose the love and admiration of my kingman. i know it drives a wedge between us, but then he sees the love i have for not just him but all our brethern and sistren and all is right side up again. How do i overcome my weakness for the american diet and become more obedient in the Rastas ways…not just for my kingman, but also for i self.

    1. Hopefully you found the discipline inside your self by now to do whats right to keep the love between you and your Rasta King, in peace and harmony. If not here is my advice….You must decide whats more important to you, eating the foods you desire to eat, or keeping the love and happiness of your Rasta King.

      Jah bless Sistren.
      …Remember every day, you are blessed to have a Rastaman as your love Partner.

  2. I live in Ehiopia I know many rastas in my life. I dated with three of them and they are all players .

  3. Greetings I enjoyed reading this very much..I am Rasterfarian for 43yrs, and just now found my Kingman, to love me unconditionally, having had a few rastas treat me bad, making me believe they are wat I call Fashion Style Ras, including a lot of white gals, not knowing the true meaning of Rastafarian ways..Jah Blessings to you sistren for this wonderful enlightenment which I have posted to my Facebook..Give Thanks xx

  4. these bomboclot rastas are f****n idiot. dem hurting mi people(women) inna Ethiopia. I wish I cud kicked dem outta mi country. look there is this bloodclot dick head rasta living inna Ethiopia He calls himself a man of God. He has his beautiful Empress who deserves her feet to be washed every night by him. but he cheats on her all the time and the worst part is he does it officially he doesn’t even respect her. Rastas dont live what dem preach. They are full of words. So anyone who is dating them woooooo “yegale biret mitad lay endetekemete new”””” sorry fi dem gals deh.

  5. these bomboclot rastas are f****n idiot. dem hurting mi people(women) inna Ethiopia. I wish I cud kicked dem outta mi country. look there is this bloodclot dick head rasta living inna Ethiopia He calls himself a man of God. He has his beautiful Empress who deserves her feet to be washed every night by him. but he cheats on her all the time and the worst part is he does it officially he doesn’t even respect her. Rastas dont live what dem preach. They are full of words. So anyone who is dating them woooooo “yegale biret mitad lay endetekemete new”””” sorry fi dem gals deh.

  6. Aaaah! give thanks for the article. As with all faiths and religions, you will find thoe who are ultra orthodox and those who are playing the fence. To thine own self be true. This goes to the persons who posted about the Rastas in Ethiopia. Please don’t generalize, as I know that there are Rastas that are true to their faith and livity. Fire bun dem imposters, yes! but much love and respect for those who don’t give into lust and folly.

  7. Thank you for the insight I had not thought of it that way I know the love between king and queen is a gift from Jah it takes will and faith to be surrounded by hate ,war, hunger,and pain maybe love is a little bit of joy.

  8. Your site provided so much information. Thank you.. Just what i wanted to know ..majority is here . So thank you again. Much appreciated.

  9. Greetngs in the name of the most high,i hail from south africa, thnks for the article,i have been in a wonderful relationship with my kingman for years now, we have build a solid and loving family with our bby girl, jah gives us love so we can share to othrs and lets not think tht evry rasta man are bad people some jst act in a wrong manner n people thnk thy r al th same,lets just spread love 1 black love

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